Re: Withdrawing a petition & can he sue??? - Page 23

12-04-2003, 10:51 AM

Met a Russian lovely at a social last year. Preparing a K-1 for her.
We are engaged, (I think.) If I find she is attending the selfsame
socials now- do I become dis-engaged? I could use some advice. I am
supporting her and have no defenses against a pretty woman...

12-04-2003, 06:29 PM

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Bill Hutson wrote: 
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Russian lovely at a social last year. Preparing a K-1 for her. We are
engaged, (I think.) If I find she is attending the selfsame socials
now- do I become dis-engaged? I could use some advice. I am supporting
her and have no defenses against a pretty woman... 
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You asked for it! (Advice that is). 
 
#1 stop supporting her! Really. If she cares about you then she should
understand. If she doesn't understand then you are simply her "meal
ticket" for the time being. Ask yourself this - what did she do to
support herself before she met you? Then ask her "How did you support
yourself before I came along?" Insist on an answer that makes sense
and, sorry about this, is verifiable. 
 
#2 Insist that she attend no other socials nor date or correspond to
any other foriegners (with any intentions of establishing relationships
with them) or other men. Why would you tolerate sharing your fiancee!?! 
 
#3 What do you mean you think you're engaged? Did you ask her?
Did she accept? If you aren't sure you're engaged then why would she
think she is? You need to talk with her to clearly delineate where your
relationship stands. 
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12-05-2003, 09:03 AM

You are right about that Maryanne. Where does he get off anyways??

"maryanne kehoe" <> wrote in message
news:15534-3FCE7425-...
 > DCMark, you need to cut Krissy some slack----what it the shoe was on the
 > other foot and we were discussing YOUR situation?(if it had happened to
 > you.)
 > Re: Withdrawing a petition & can he sue???
 > Group: alt.visa.us.marriage-based Date: Wed, Dec 3, 2003, 8:27pm (EST+5)
 > From: member16453@british_expats.com (krissyv)
 > Thanks DCMark - I've advised my friends to start calling me sick
 > kris....
 > I'm sorry that you object to me sharing my problem with people on this
 > thread. But I would like to put this out there - everything that is said
 > is true and I have documentry proof to back up every single allegation -
 > as a practising lawyer, I undestand the best defence to defamation /
 > slander is the truth and without that & evidence of that I would NEVER
 > make such statements....
 > There probably is another side to the story and maybe he is right that
 > I'm a b**tch, wh**e, and so ugly that he was forced into cheating on
 > me...and if thats true then yes, you had a valid point.
 > I saw this site as a forum to discuss issues and i have made sure that I
 > have taken every opinion for what it is and respected it. I would not
 > label people merely because I did not agree with their opinion. While
 > you may not agree with what I have share with this forum, I would
 > appreciate if you don't tell me that I'm sick - just say that you don't
 > agree with my approach.
 > BTW I'm 26, never cheated, this is my 4th boyfriend EVER. I've never
 > been divorced - and I really thought I was going to marry this guy. And
 > he reinforced that opinion with calls and emails every day until I
 > confronted him about his cheating.
 > I would never do anything to hurt him or his career and as I said in
 > past postings any venegefull thoughts were just that- thoughts, because
 > I am hurt & angry and just venting to get through this incredible
 > difficult time in my life.
 > Thanks
 > Krissy
 > --
 > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

12-16-2003, 06:05 AM

so you are replying to the most pathetic series of posts, that makes you
even more pathetic? yes I think so.

"DCMark" <member6276@british_expats.com> wrote in message
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 > This is without a doubt the most pathetic series of posts I have ever
 > seen on this newsgroup. Some of you need to get out more, get a job, or
 > if you have a job, do some work.
 > And for the Original Poster: you are a bit sick to be sharing such
 > private issues with total strangers.
 > As someone mentioned, we are only hearing her side of the story. The
 > more she posts, the more unbelieveable her story becomes.
 > --
 > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

12-16-2003, 06:05 AM

Why are you here? all you do is stir up trouble.

"DCMark" <member6276@british_expats.com> wrote in message
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 > SO WHAT if everything is true? It has nothing to do with marriage visa
 > issues. It has nothing to do with anyone on this list. This list is
 > not a court of law and this list is not where you have to show
 > documentary evidence.
 > You came here with a question somewhat related to marriage, in terms of
 > his ability to get you banned for life. The resident attorneys answered
 > that on page one. The rest of the details about your relationship is
 > what I see as totally out of place here.
 > I am sorry you had your heart broken. Its happened to me. It sucks but
 > don't make it worse.
 > Originally posted by krissyv
 > > Thanks DCMark - I've advised my friends to start calling me sick
 > > kris....
 > > I'm sorry that you object to me sharing my problem with people on this
 > > thread. But I would like to put this out there - everything that is
 > > said is true and I have documentry proof to back up every single
 > > allegation - as a practising lawyer, I undestand the best defence to
 > > defamation / slander is the truth and without that & evidence of that
 > > I would NEVER make such statements....
 > > Thanks
 > Krissy
 > --
 > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

12-16-2003, 07:09 AM

andrew defaria wrote:

 >so you are replying to the most pathetic series of posts, that makes you
 >even more pathetic? yes I think so.
 >
Another forge...

 >"DCMark" <member6276@british_expats.com> wrote in message
 >news:...
 >
 >>This is without a doubt the most pathetic series of posts I have ever
 >>seen on this newsgroup. Some of you need to get out more, get a job, or
 >>if you have a job, do some work.
 >>And for the Original Poster: you are a bit sick to be sharing such
 >>private issues with total strangers.
 >>As someone mentioned, we are only hearing her side of the story. The
 >>more she posts, the more unbelieveable her story becomes.
 >>--
 >>Posted via http://britishexpats.com
 >>
 >

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12-16-2003, 07:10 AM

andrew defaria wrote:

 >Why are you here? all you do is stir up trouble.
 >
You should talk...

 >"DCMark" <member6276@british_expats.com> wrote in message
 >news:...
 >
 >>SO WHAT if everything is true? It has nothing to do with marriage visa
 >>issues. It has nothing to do with anyone on this list. This list is
 >>not a court of law and this list is not where you have to show
 >>documentary evidence.
 >>You came here with a question somewhat related to marriage, in terms of
 >>his ability to get you banned for life. The resident attorneys answered
 >>that on page one. The rest of the details about your relationship is
 >>what I see as totally out of place here.
 >>I am sorry you had your heart broken. Its happened to me. It sucks but
 >>don't make it worse.
 >>Originally posted by krissyv
 >>
 >>>Thanks DCMark - I've advised my friends to start calling me sick
 >>>kris....
 >>>
 >>>I'm sorry that you object to me sharing my problem with people on this
 >>>thread. But I would like to put this out there - everything that is
 >>>said is true and I have documentry proof to back up every single
 >>>allegation - as a practising lawyer, I undestand the best defence to
 >>>defamation / slander is the truth and without that & evidence of that
 >>>I would NEVER make such statements....
 >>>
 >>>Thanks
 >>>
 >>Krissy
 >>--
 >>Posted via http://britishexpats.com
 >>
 >

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