> Hi
>
> i've recently had a telephone interview for my spouse visa 309 and the
> co said she wants more proof of my defacto relationship. there is not
> much more that i can send and am now feeling absolutely distraught
> that i might not get this visa. I'm terrified. I thought i had
> provided enough info as we have been living together for 15 months and
> have rent agreements. we've not got any joint bills and although we
> don't have a joint account my oh's wage goes in my account. I've sent
> all this information.
>
> has this happened to anyone else and does anyone have any
> recommendations - i've got 21 days to respond
>
> please help
Firstly, deep breath, many people have been in this position.
secondlycan you ask your case officer what she suggests? What sort of
info is she looking for?
I don't know if you've done any of this already, but - highlight your
bank statement entries and annotate where the money goes in, and where
it goes out to pay bills on the property.
If you can, get Stat decs from your landlord to say that you live
together as a couple, not as friends.
Did you send Stat Decs from family - on both sides - as well as friends?
Have you any proof of holidays together, or places you have been invited
as a couple.
Have you made Wills, leaving everything to each other? If not, get down
to Smiths, get some cheap forms and fill them in then send copies! Easy
to do, follow the instructions, and very good proof of commitiment.
Are you in any clubs together? Do you have anythingfrom work or
somewhere nominating each other as next of kin?
Finally - if you have a list of what you have already sent, I will pm
you my email address. Send it to me and I'll have a look - off to bed
shortly, but back in about 8 hours!!!
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Pollyana