D_medina

Originally posted by Hypertweeky
    > Hi Medina:
    >
    > I have
just finished reading your posts, I even read it to my husband.. he
doesn't know what to say, he is astounded just like me. It must be so
hard to be pregnant without your husband there, when's the baby due?. I
saw your NOA1 is March 29, MSC/NBC is taking their sweet time.. but you
should get an approval in a month or 2 and your husband will join you
again!.I know it is hard to stay positive when everything is going
wrong.. but think about the good things you have in your life: Your 5
year old daughter, the little baby inside of you, and a loving husband!.

    > You have found love!, Some people take a lifetime to find it.. others
never find it so feel lucky you did. Do you know how many couples try to
have a baby and they fail?, You have one inside of you!, you should feel
blessed, you are about to put a little life in this crazy but also
beautiful world. You are scared and I don't blame you but it is not
gonna be like this forever!!. You have so much to fight for, don't give
up!!, here is a hug for you and your baby ((Medina)):)
    > Take care!


Thank you Hyper....Your response made me cry. All I do right
now is live one day at a time. Thinking of the future and what will
come stresses me. November is going to be a hard month. At least I
won't be dead right?

Thank you for a much needed hug :)

Rete

Originally posted by d_medina
    > Thank you Hyper....Your
response made me cry. All I do right now is live one day at a time.
Thinking of the future and what will come stresses me. November is
going to be a hard month. At least I won't be dead right?
    >
    > Thank
you for a much needed hug :)


Actually your husband might
well be with you in November. You know I'm about to suggest a method
that normally I would never suggest.

However, there are mere fiancees
out there who impregnant their fiancees before marriage when they are
probably testing out the physical end of the relationship and then use
the not often touted or used method of "Expediting A Petition" through
the USCIS maze at the service centers.

Since your husband has already
been the K-1 route, passed it successfully, got his visa, entered,
married but due to an emergency left without advance parole and is now
stuck in his own country, DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO EXPEDITE HIS BLOODY
K-3.

You are not like zeo who is bemoaning his fate of being alone on a
Saturday night because he married a foreigner and has to wait his turn
in line while being the proverbial pain because he has to accept the
consequences of his actions.

You have a very real and legitimate need
for your husband to be along side you in the here and now in the US.


Call your congress person, search for expediting a case on the
newsgroup, be PRO-ACTIVE. If they will expedite a case for someone NOT
married and who got their girlfriend pregnant, they can damn well
expedite a case where the USC WIFE is pregnant. Isn't that what Bush
and his cronies are promoting .... family values?

Rete

Zeo

Originally posted by Rete
    > Actually your husband might
well be with you in November. You know I'm about to suggest a method
that normally I would never suggest.
    >
    > However, there are mere
fiancees out there who impregnant their fiancees before marriage when
they are probably testing out the physical end of the relationship and
then use the not often touted or used method of "Expediting A Petition"
through the USCIS maze at the service centers.
    >
    > Since your husband
has already been the K-1 route, passed it successfully, got his visa,
entered, married but due to an emergency left without advance parole and
is now stuck in his own country, DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO EXPEDITE HIS
BLOODY K-3.
    >
    > You are not like zeo who is bemoaning his fate of being
alone on a Saturday night because he married a foreigner and has to
wait his turn in line while being the proverbial pain because he has to
accept the consequences of his actions.
    >
    > You have a very real and
legitimate need for your husband to be along side you in the here and
now in the US.
    >
    > Call your congress person, search for expediting a
case on the newsgroup, be PRO-ACTIVE. If they will expedite a case for
someone NOT married and who got their girlfriend pregnant, they can damn
well expedite a case where the USC WIFE is pregnant. Isn't that what
Bush and his cronies are promoting .... family values?
    >
    > Rete


There is no problem to complain, and you are a pain in the
butt and rude.

Tortoise

Originally posted by zeo
    > There is no problem to
complain

i have to agree. this is a message board, which is
hopefully here not only to give sound advice, but to also give a bit of
support to those who are feeling stressed and who are going through it.
it doesn't matter if joe blogg's case is worse than bob smith's... it's
how the person is dealing with it that matters. i wish i remember the
words to that poem 'agony in anybody's garden'...

i would never tell a
child (or an adult) to buck up after they'd fallen over and hurt their
knees, just because everyone else does it. i'd most likely give them a
hug or a pat on the back and ask if they were ok.

just my opinion.

Zeo

Originally posted by tortoise
    > i have to agree. this
is a message board, which is hopefully here not only to give sound
advice, but to also give a bit of support to those who are feeling
stressed and who are going through it. it doesn't matter if joe
blogg's case is worse than bob smith's... it's how the person is
dealing with it that matters. i wish i remember the words to that poem
'agony in anybody's garden'...
    >
    > i would never tell a child (or an
adult) to buck up after they'd fallen over and hurt their knees, just
because everyone else does it. i'd most likely give them a hug or a
pat on the back and ask if they were ok.
    >
    > just my opinion.

your are correct. :)

Zeo

Originally posted by ray6
    > This maybe
true...unfortunately she is usually right though..and in this case most
definitely..
in this case most definitely not, you can choose
not read my posts or anyone elses.

Ian-Mstm

Originally posted by zeo
    > in this case most definitely
not, you can choose not read my posts or anyone elses.

Wait a
sec... in a previous post on this thread you wrote:


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Originally posted by Rete

Self pity, moaning and groaning is
unbecoming to someone such as yourself. So you are alone. Sorry but what
is the great big deal in being alone. It is not the end of the world.
<etc. deleted>
Rete
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Originally posted by zeo

your 100% correct, but it is still
sad being alone sometimes, true my wife does not need to be at my hip,
but i would be MUCH happier if she was here with me.


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It sounds to me like
you're ticked off that Rete is verifying what you yourself said. She's
chosen not to indulge your pain!

Just my $0.02 worth!

Ian

Pallyn

There is a big difference between going to the zoo alone or with
another friend, and going to prenatal visits and sitting through
glucose tolerance tests alone or with another friend. In both cases
there are other happy couples to observe, but the gap left by the
absent partner in the latter case gapes a lot wider. Besides which,
zeo has only just begun to wait, this is d medina's second round. I'm
with Rete and Ray on this.

Zeo

Originally posted by ian-mstm
    > Wait a sec... in a
previous post on this thread you wrote:
    >
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    > -----------------------------------------------------------------------
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    > Originally posted by Rete
    >
    > Self pity, moaning and
groaning is unbecoming to someone such as yourself. So you are alone.
Sorry but what is the great big deal in being alone. It is not the end
of the world. <etc. deleted>
    > Rete
    > -----------------------------------------------------------------------
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    > Originally posted by zeo
    >
    > your 100% correct, but it is
still sad being alone sometimes, true my wife does not need to be at my
hip, but i would be MUCH happier if she was here with me.
    >
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    >
    > It sounds to me like
you're ticked off that Rete is verifying what you yourself said. She's
chosen not to indulge your pain!
    >
    > Just my $0.02 worth!
    >
    > Ian



The comment she made as follows was fine and not rude:


"Self pity, moaning and groaning is unbecoming to someone such as
yourself. So you are alone. Sorry but what is the great big deal in
being alone. It is not the end of the world. <etc. deleted>
Rete "

But
the other one she made about me was, So i am ticked off about the second
RUDE comment she made, thats fine I NEVER asked her to indulge in my
pain at all.

Zeo

Originally posted by Pallyn
    > There is a big difference
between going to the zoo alone or with another friend, and going to
prenatal visits and sitting through glucose tolerance tests alone or
with another friend. In both cases there are other happy couples to
observe, but the gap left by the absent partner in the latter case gapes
a lot wider. Besides which, zeo has only just begun to wait, this is d
medina's second round. I'm with Rete and Ray on this.
thats
fine, but that does not give anyone the right to be rude, especially
from a moderator, we may need a new one.