Zeo

As of 9:27AM CST, there has been no update on the USCIS site for
processing dates. I thought it would be updated by now. :(

Kud

Originally posted by zeo
    > As of 9:27AM CST, there has
been no update on the USCIS site for processing dates. I thought it
would be updated by now. :(

Do you remember the old saying
about a watched kettle? Try not to drive yourself nuts. You will get
approved, the question is when.

Zeo

Originally posted by kud
    > Do you remember the old saying
about a watched kettle? Try not to drive yourself nuts. You will get
approved, the question is when.
yes your 100% CORRECT! :)

D_medina

Originally posted by zeo
    > yes your 100% CORRECT! :)


Zeo try putting yourself in my shoes. My husband will not
see, feel or be able to experience my pregnancy and the birth of this
baby. Financially, I'm a wreck. I literally live paycheck to paycheck
and I have not been able to buy maternity clothes yet. Now when the
baby is born I don't even want to think what I'll have to do to support
myself because temp. disability checks will not pay my whole rent,
diapers, bills. Even if it's a week after giving birth I will have to
force myself to go straight back to work.

Am I desperate yes. Am I
losing it? yes. I'm going completely insane that I will not have the
help I need because immigration does not give a damn about the hardship
its going to cost me emotionally and financially just because they are
slow. Seriously, I should have had an abortion. This is horrible to
a child on your own...and my 5 year old is starting kindergarten soon.
She needs clothes too...she has grown out of her old clothes.....so
please zeo have patience, you are in a better position than others.
Your time will come. No doubt and thank God you don't have the stresses
I got. Your wait should be easier.

Zeo

Originally posted by d_medina
    > Zeo try putting yourself
in my shoes. My husband will not see, feel or be able to experience my
pregnancy and the birth of this baby. Financially, I'm a wreck. I
literally live paycheck to paycheck and I have not been able to buy
maternity clothes yet. Now when the baby is born I don't even want to
think what I'll have to do to support myself because temp. disability
checks will not pay my whole rent, diapers, bills. Even if it's a week
after giving birth I will have to force myself to go straight back to
work.
    >
    > Am I desperate yes. Am I losing it? yes. I'm going
completely insane that I will not have the help I need because
immigration does not give a damn about the hardship its going to cost me
emotionally and financially just because they are slow. Seriously, I
should have had an abortion. This is horrible to a child on your
own...and my 5 year old is starting kindergarten soon. She needs
clothes too...she has grown out of her old clothes.....so please zeo
have patience, you are in a better position than others. Your time will
come. No doubt and thank God you don't have the stresses I got. Your
wait should be easier.


I do not understand your situation,
why did you do the I-129F for? Which visa did you do before k1 or k3 and
now your doing another one? I HIGHLY reccomend because of this HARDSHIP
PLEASE contact your senator's office and congressman's office to APPEAL
for an expedited case. THIS IS NOT FAIR to you or the BABY! How many
months pregnant are you?

Believe me I am NOT better off than most
people. I am ALL alone. Everyday is a day without my wife :( On the
weekends I could have taken my wife to the Zoo, amusement park, museums,
the Mall, a movie, out to dinner, going for a road trip, have a picnic
and do a BBQ. The WEEKENDS are tough, sure there are house chores to do,
but i try to finish those during the weekdays and my weekend SUCK! :(

D_medina

Originally posted by zeo
    > I do not understand your
situation, why did you do the I-129F for? Which visa did you do before
k1 or k3 and now your doing another one? I HIGHLY reccomend because of
this HARDSHIP PLEASE contact your senator's office and congressman's
office to APPEAL for an expedited case. THIS IS NOT FAIR to you or the
BABY! How many months pregnant are you?
    >
    > Believe me I am NOT better
off than most people. I am ALL alone. Everyday is a day without my wife
    :( On the weekends I could have taken my wife to the Zoo, amusement
park, museums, the Mall, a movie, out to dinner, going for a road trip,
have a picnic and do a BBQ. The WEEKENDS are tough, sure there are house
chores to do, but i try to finish those during the weekdays and my
weekend SUCK! :(

Zeo...I did. I contacted my senators and was
told "call me back in August if by then you don't hear anything". The
other one said he can't help until the case is at the consulate. I
wrote an expedite request letter to Vermont for the I-130 and it was
denied. I dont' know maybe I didn't express my case well or something.
I could still send an expedite request to missouri, but after Vermont
turned me down I was discouraged. I started putting into a document my
expenses and income. How will I word this. I dont' know. I can't
concentrate really and I don't know how to best present my case. I'm
almost 5 mths pregnant. My husband came to US on a K1, but then had to
leave. So then I put in the paperwork for the I-130 and I-129F (K3).

Zeo

Originally posted by d_medina
    > Zeo...I did. I contacted
my senators and was told "call me back in August if by then you don't
hear anything". The other one said he can't help until the case is at
the consulate. I wrote an expedite request letter to Vermont for the
I-130 and it was denied. I dont' know maybe I didn't express my case
well or something. I could still send an expedite request to missouri,
but after Vermont turned me down I was discouraged. I started putting
into a document my expenses and income. How will I word this. I dont'
know. I can't concentrate really and I don't know how to best present
my case. I'm almost 5 mths pregnant. My husband came to US on a K1,
but then had to leave. So then I put in the paperwork for the I-130 and
I-129F (K3).

Why did he leave?

Rete

Originally posted by zeo
    > Believe me I am NOT better off
than most people. I am ALL alone. Everyday is a day without my wife :(
On the weekends I could have taken my wife to the Zoo, amusement park,
museums, the Mall, a movie, out to dinner, going for a road trip, have a
picnic and do a BBQ. The WEEKENDS are tough, sure there are house chores
to do, but i try to finish those during the weekdays and my weekend
SUCK! :(


Self pity, moaning and groaning is unbecoming to
someone such as yourself. So you are alone. Sorry but what is the
great big deal in being alone. It is not the end of the world.
Millions of people of all ages, religions, cultures, etc. are alone.
They find comfort in being loved by others and loving others in return.
They do not have to be joined at the hip with someone in order to live
healthy, normal and productive lives. You can go the movies, the zoo,
concerts, the theater alone. Your life sucks because YOU made it suck.
Not because the USCIS is responsible for it being so boring for you.


Perhaps you need to grow up a little bit and acknowledge that your
life isn't so bad.

Rete

Rete

Originally posted by zeo
    > Believe me I am NOT better off
than most people. I am ALL alone. Everyday is a day without my wife :(
On the weekends I could have taken my wife to the Zoo, amusement park,
museums, the Mall, a movie, out to dinner, going for a road trip, have a
picnic and do a BBQ. The WEEKENDS are tough, sure there are house chores
to do, but i try to finish those during the weekdays and my weekend
SUCK! :(


Self pity, moaning and groaning is unbecoming to
someone such as yourself. So you are alone. Sorry but what is the
great big deal in being alone. It is not the end of the world.
Millions of people of all ages, religions, cultures, etc. are alone.
They find comfort in being loved by others and loving others in return.
They do not have to be joined at the hip with someone in order to live
healthy, normal and productive lives. You can go the movies, the zoo,
concerts, the theater alone. Your life sucks because YOU made it suck.
Not because the USCIS is responsible for it being so boring for you.


Perhaps you need to grow up a little bit and acknowledge that your
life isn't so bad.

Rete - In An Opinionated Mood

Zeo

Originally posted by Rete
    > Self pity, moaning and
groaning is unbecoming to someone such as yourself. So you are alone.
Sorry but what is the great big deal in being alone. It is not the end
of the world. Millions of people of all ages, religions, cultures, etc.
are alone. They find comfort in being loved by others and loving others
in return. They do not have to be joined at the hip with someone in
order to live healthy, normal and productive lives. You can go the
movies, the zoo, concerts, the theater alone. Your life sucks because
YOU made it suck. Not because the USCIS is responsible for it being so
boring for you.
    >
    > Perhaps you need to grow up a little bit and
acknowledge that your life isn't so bad.
    >
    > Rete
your 100%
correct, but it is still sad being alone sometimes, true my wife does
not need to be at my hip, but i would be MUCH happier if she was here
with me. :)