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Old 01-22-2004, 01:46 AM   #1 (permalink)
Alicia&Driss
 
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I just talked to Driss in more detail about his interview; I’m a little
concerned about an answer he gave what do you think?? Here’s how his
interview went:

There were 4 women before him, 2 went to a man and got the visas that
day. And 2 women was before him, with the same interviewer. First one
had no problem and was told to come back that day to get her visa. Then
the next lady that got interviewed, she had a hard time and the
interviewer made this woman cry she was so harsh with her. He said she
kept fussing at her during the whole interview. (Needless to say she did
not get her visa this day either.) So when Driss was called up his heart
was beating out of his chest. All this over a phone, but standing
between glass. He said it was so hard to hear what she said and she was
speaking so fast in english. So here goes:

Interviewer: is it the first and last time your wife came to
morocco when you married?

Driss: he gives the date I was there

Interviewer REPETS: is it the first and last time she came to
morocco?

Driss: gives the same answer, dates I was there

Interviewer gets extremely mad at his answer and calls a man over there
to translate after fussing at him.

Interviewer: do you love her?

Driss: yes

Interviewer: why?

Driss: Because she is my life’s dream

Interviewer: Does your wife love your family?

Driss: Yes

Interviewer: how do you know?

Driss: Because my wife always says she wish my mother could live
with is in the usa

More questions then the one I am worried about:

Interviewer: When was your wedding?

Driss: July 5th

Okay our wedding was July 5th but the final papers were typed on July
7th and this is the date the court has recorded.

Will this be a problem??? He said she asked 2 times about our ages. I
am 6 years older than him Also a few other questions

Then she asked for our pictures and he gave her an album, she fussed at
him again saying I only need one picture not an album just give me one.
Then she said now I need to see one with your wife and your parents. No
problem we had many. She also read a couple of letters then told him:
“Your visa is not ready yet, you will need to return with your passport
when we call you� He asked her if he would need to bring anything else
when he comes and she said “ if we need we will tell you when we call�
The whole thing lasted about 10 minutes. And he said that he feels that
she could tell he was so nervous.

But I am really worried about the wedding date that he gave her because
it does not match the court papers. Will this be a problem????

He was not worried about the interview untill I asked him why he said
the 5th and he said this was our wedding day. lol Now he is so worried
too about saying this, and not the date in the court papers.

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Old 01-22-2004, 02:02 AM   #2 (permalink)
Leslie66
 
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Default Re: maybe a problem during the interview

Alicia,



I think you must be a very brave soul to even post on this NG tonight.
     The lunacy levels are toxic right now.



I don't think you should worry too much about something you can't
control. Those Q&A's are so frenetic, who knows who remembers what? If
they send him something requiring more information, then he can simply
provide it and explain what he meant at the time he was answering the
questions. He is probably second guessing himself for no reason. Wait
and see if they question him, and if they do, then he can answer them
honestly. I doubt that his worries will amount to a hill of beans.



Leslie









Originally posted by Alicia&Driss

    > I just talked to Driss in more detail about his interview; I’m a
    > little concerned about an answer he gave what do you think?? Here’s
    > how his interview went:

    > There were 4 women before him, 2 went to a man and got the visas that
    > day. And 2 women was before him, with the same interviewer. First one
    > had no problem and was told to come back that day to get her visa.
    > Then the next lady that got interviewed, she had a hard time and the
    > interviewer made this woman cry she was so harsh with her. He said she
    > kept fussing at her during the whole interview. (Needless to say she
    > did not get her visa this day either.) So when Driss was called up his
    > heart was beating out of his chest. All this over a phone, but
    > standing between glass. He said it was so hard to hear what she said
    > and she was speaking so fast in english. So here goes:

    > Interviewer: is it the first and last time your wife came to
    > morocco when you married?

    > Driss: he gives the date I was there

    > Interviewer REPETS: is it the first and last time she came to
    > morocco?

    > Driss: gives the same answer, dates I was there

    > Interviewer gets extremely mad at his answer and calls a man over
    > there to translate after fussing at him.

    > Interviewer: do you love her?

    > Driss: yes

    > Interviewer: why?

    > Driss: Because she is my life’s dream

    > Interviewer: Does your wife love your family?

    > Driss: Yes

    > Interviewer: how do you know?

    > Driss: Because my wife always says she wish my mother could live
    > with is in the usa

    > More questions then the one I am worried about:

    > Interviewer: When was your wedding?

    > Driss: July 5th

    > Okay our wedding was July 5th but the final papers were typed on July
    > 7th and this is the date the court has recorded.

    > Will this be a problem??? He said she asked 2 times about our ages. I
    > am 6 years older than him Also a few other questions

    > Then she asked for our pictures and he gave her an album, she fussed
    > at him again saying I only need one picture not an album just give me
    > one. Then she said now I need to see one with your wife and your
    > parents. No problem we had many. She also read a couple of letters
    > then told him: “Your visa is not ready yet, you will need to return
    > with your passport when we call youâ€? He asked her if he would need to
    > bring anything else when he comes and she said “ if we need we will
    > tell you when we callâ€? The whole thing lasted about 10 minutes. And he
    > said that he feels that she could tell he was so nervous.

    > But I am really worried about the wedding date that he gave her
    > because it does not match the court papers. Will this be a problem????

He was not worried about the interview untill I asked him why he said
the 5th and he said this was our wedding day. lol Now he is so worried
too about saying this, and not the date in the court papers.

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Old 01-22-2004, 02:16 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Leslie66

    > Alicia,


    > I think you must be a very brave soul to even post on this NG tonight.
    > The lunacy levels are toxic right now.


    > I don't think you should worry too much about something you can't
    > control. Those Q&A's are so frenetic, who knows who remembers what?
    > If they send him something requiring more information, then he can
    > simply provide it and explain what he meant at the time he was
    > answering the questions. He is probably second guessing himself for
    > no reason. Wait and see if they question him, and if they do, then he
    > can answer them honestly. I doubt that his worries will amount to a
    > hill of beans.


    > Leslie





Leslie, lol yea im a worried brave soul! lol Thanks for the response. I
too think Im looking to deep into his answers. But Lawd, I coudnt
believe it when he said the 5th. lol Your right we do have proof, the
whole 2+ hours of video says the 5th.

This whole process has turned me into a worry wart. And its giving me
zits. hahahaha

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Old 01-22-2004, 02:41 AM   #4 (permalink)
Alicia&Driss
 
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Originally posted by Hebapotamus42

    > Alicia,


    > It's very common for the wedding reception to be on a different date
    > than the official marriage, esp in the middle east. It seems that
    > your husband was probably approved, but they need to do the
    > administrative processing before issuing the visa since he is a young
    > (I'm assuming muslim) moroccan male. I don't think you have anything
    > to be worried about. (BTW, I like the answer he gave as to why he
    > loves you. )



Thanks..yea your correct he is 26 and Muslim. Yea I thought his answer
was so sweet as to why he loved me. Thanks again

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Old 01-22-2004, 03:02 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: maybe a problem during the interview

Did driss has any denied tourist visa??? or any other kind of US visa???
I saw a case she received the visa some days after the interview because
they were checking those reports...



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Old 01-22-2004, 03:07 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Originally posted by doblepat

    > Did driss has any denied tourist visa??? or any other kind of US
    > visa??? I saw a case she received the visa some days after the
    > interview because they were checking those reports...


    > 2Pat





Hi, No actually he has never been out of Morocco or even wanted to
leave there before we meet. So this is the first time he has ever
applied for anything.

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Old 01-22-2004, 03:14 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Alicia&Driss

    > Hi, No actually he has never been out of Morocco or even wanted to
    > leave there before we meet. So this is the first time he has ever
    > applied for anything.

So Alicia, don't worry, maybe there is the procedure in your case. Your
husband is coming home very very soon...



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Old 01-22-2004, 12:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Originally posted by doblepat

    > So Alicia, don't worry, maybe there is the procedure in your case.
    > Your husband is coming home very very soon...


    > 2Pat



Thanks so much 2pat

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Old 01-22-2004, 12:42 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Alicia&Driss

    > Thanks so much 2pat

Alicia:



I more question: What day does the marriage certificate says that your
marriage happened... 5th or 7th?? I understood the paper must say 7th.
It that's right??



Well, how ever I think it is not a problem...!!



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Old 01-22-2004, 12:48 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Originally posted by doblepat

    > Alicia:


    > I more question: What day does the marriage certificate says that your
    > marriage happened... 5th or 7th?? I understood the paper must say 7th.
    > It that's right??


    > Well, how ever I think it is not a problem...!!


    > 2pat



yea, the cert does say the date of July 7th

I sure hope no problem.

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