Macjoubert

HOGWASH!
Nice try at wriggling out , luckily your original quote is ever so
present.

Pay attention now :
>From your initial posting,
1) However, for numerous reasons I would really prefer if they do NOT
immigrate to the US. Is there anyway I can prevent this or at least
delay it?
2) Will the INS inform the sister in India about the incorrect I-864A
or was that letter only issued to my spouse
since he is the sponsor?

>From your recent posting,
3) In a few months when these medical issues are over it will not be
a problem. So that is why I was asking about a delay or
temporary hold on the visa.

Deedee13

> HOGWASH!
> Nice try at wriggling out , luckily your original quote is ever so
> present.
>
> Pay attention now :
> >From your initial posting,
> 1) However, for numerous reasons I would really prefer if they do NOT
> immigrate to the US. Is there anyway I can prevent this or at least
> delay it?
> 2) Will the INS inform the sister in India about the incorrect I-864A
> or was that letter only issued to my spouse
> since he is the sponsor?
>
> >From your recent posting,
> 3) In a few months when these medical issues are over it will not be
> a problem. So that is why I was asking about a delay or
> temporary hold on the visa.
>
> --
> 3 flies in the face of 1 and 2 , where you state unequivocally that
> you DO NOT WISH THEM TO IMMIGRATE.
> What is it ruby? You dont want to take care of a sickly child? You
> dont want your lifestyle compromised?You dont want additions to your
> suburban home?
>
>
> On Feb 28, 10:23 am, rubyb...@yahoo.com wrote:
> > On Feb 28, 4:55 am, "Sapphyre" <sapphyre...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > > If I were your spouse and you'd do that to me, I'd leave you. And
> > > that's just the start of your problems...
> >
> > > You know that you're not really anonymous here, and the
> > > authorities
> > > can trace your IP number to your home computer right?
> >
> > > On Feb 27, 7:27 pm, rubyb...@yahoo.com wrote:
> >
> > > > About 12 years ago, my spouse submitted an application for a
> > > > green
> > > > card for his unmarried younger sister under the 4th preference
> > > > category. She is now married with two children and the
> > > > application
> > > > is current and being processed by the INS. INS is now asking for
> > > > supporting documents like birth certificates, marriage
> > > > certificate
> > > > etc. so I would think that they may get their visas soon.
> > > > However,
> > > > for numerous reasons I would really prefer if they do NOT
> > > > immigrate
> > > > to the US. Is there anyway I can prevent this or at least delay
> > > > it?
> >
> > > > The INS recently sent a letter that stated that there were some
> > > > mistakes and missing info on the I-864A(Affadivit of support)
> > > > form
> > > > and that these must be corrected before the application can be
> > > > processed further. My spouse has not seen this letter, but I
> > > > have.
> > > > If the I-864A form is never corrected, can this stop or delay
> > > > the
> > > > issuance of the visas? Will the INS inform the sister in India
> > > > about
> > > > the incorrect I-864A or was that letter only issued to my spouse
> > > > since he is the sponsor?
> >
> > > > The letter does state that if a period of one year passes and
> > > > NVC is
> > > > not contacted, all submitted fees and documents will expire.
> > > > Does this also mean that the application will be tossed aside if
> > > > the
> > > > I-864A is not corrected?
> >
> > > > I guess my question is .. Is there any way to stop this visa
> > > > from
> > > > being issued or if that is not possible, is there any way to
> > > > delay
> > > > it as long as possible?- Hide quoted text -
> >
> > > - Show quoted text -
> >
> > Well, like one poster mentioned I did not mention all the details so
> > my post came out sounding quite different than the real situation
> > and
> > it sounded like I was the one who wanted to delay this and for bad
> > reasons. That is not the case and we did not mean it like that.
> > Firstly, my spouse is aware of the letter. When I submitted my
> > question I had just received the letter. He also does not want them
> > to
> > come here right now.
> >
> > The reason that we both would prefer the visa delayed is due to
> > medical reasons that one of the family members is going through. It
> > would be much less costly for them to receive medical care there and
> > not in the US due high costs here and as sponsors it would be our
> > liability. In a few months when these medical issues are over it
> > will
> > not be a problem. So that is why I was asking about a delay or
> > temporary hold on the visa. I did not use the appropriate wording or
> > supply enough information in my first post. My mistake.- Hide quoted
> > text -
> >
> > - Show quoted text -

12 years........ 12 years.. and there is actually light at the end of
the tunnel? and now this, I too think that there is a lot of back
peddling going on here. If u are stating now that its all out in the
open then yes u worded the first thread very badly. A sponsor is just
that, thru thick and thin, They could be here and a medical issue
arrises, but this is something u should have thought about before
sponsoring in the first place. Sponsorship is never to be taken lightly
guess ur just not up to it. Money never replaces family. EVER!! I think
ur too wrapped up in yourself to even contemplate "helping" others. Yes
there is a way to delay it, but in your case I think u better have a
heart to heart with ur other half and recind ur application because in
times like this u are not the people i certainly would like to have to
depend on. sorry.

Sapphyre

If the reasons for delaying immigration were such as you describe, you
would have worded your post differently and explained such (to find
out the ramifications of sponsoring someone with medical issues, to
find out if medical issues are something you're responsible for as a
sponsor, or your spouse is the sponsor? you'd be asking if the visa
could be delayed until they get better, or how long it takes, and
you'd ask if after the visa is issued, if they could chose not to use
it).

You were torn to shreds by posters in the newsgroup because it looked
as though your spouse was sponsoring his family, you got a letter
telling him the application is incomplete, and you were going to
sabotage his efforts by not allowing him to see the letter. It has
nothing to do with whether or not you wanted to sponsor his family or
not, although some people might see it that way. I was annoyed by the
fact you could be married to someone and behave so deceitfully. A lot
of people get upset at their spouse for seeing another partner, I
think what you're doing is just so much worse than a one night stand
while married... (or should I say, what you described in the first
post, since right now I don't really believe anything you say
anymore).

S.

On Feb 28, 10:23 am, rubyb...@yahoo.com wrote:
> Well, like one poster mentioned I did not mention all the details so
> my post came out sounding quite different than the real situation and
> it sounded like I was the one who wanted to delay this and for bad
> reasons. That is not the case and we did not mean it like that.
> Firstly, my spouse is aware of the letter. When I submitted my
> question I had just received the letter. He also does not want them to
> come here right now.
>
> The reason that we both would prefer the visa delayed is due to
> medical reasons that one of the family members is going through. It
> would be much less costly for them to receive medical care there and
> not in the US due high costs here and as sponsors it would be our
> liability. In a few months when these medical issues are over it will
> not be a problem. So that is why I was asking about a delay or
> temporary hold on the visa. I did not use the appropriate wording or
> supply enough information in my first post. My mistake.- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -