Originally posted by Rockabilly Cat
> Wtitten on the opening front page it's handwritten:-
> A96204165 Visa Waiver Refusal 212.721 7022
> The craziest part to me was they stamped my daughters passport
> as being
> admitted saying "I'm doing you a favour by not marking her as I have
> you" What the hell did that mean?
> Graham
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Hi Graham,
It would be wise of you to consult an immigration attorney before you go
much further in your process.
While I'm certainly sorry for your situation and can completely relate
to missing your partner, I am wondering about your daughter---I don't
know if you were married to her mother or who has custody of the little
girl, but if you're planning to move to the US with her you will have to
provide a court document stating that you have custody of her before
they will let you take her.
That said, what in the world are you thinking? I'm not trying to be
judgemental, but an eight year old girl needs to be in a consistent and
structured environment, (school in the *UK* being part of that) not
traipsing all over the world for three months at a time, staying in a
"shack" and hanging with her father's girlfriend. (I'm using your word,
not sure if you were being serious or not).
I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, and I don't mean to berate your for your
choices, (I'm sure that your daughter had a lovely time here and made
friends as well), but it's up to the parents to make choices based on
the best interests of their children, no matter how cool and exciting
the little ones think it all is.
Please, my apologies as I know you didn't come here to get a lecture
about child raising. I just have to wonder about your choices as you
have presented them. Good Luck.
~SecretGarden
~and Mr. Pink
(Interview Jan. 6th)