On Wed, 18 Jan 2006, Freewill wrote:
> You are going to leave you wife and your son without his
> father for 5 years?
> That's messed up.
There are actually many cases - especially in Toronto - where
the extreme difficulties to find descent job for new immigrants
cause these new immigrants cannot afford to raise their new born
- Canadian citizen - child: if only one parent works, the money
not enough, if two parents work, they cannot afford the daycare.
The queue for subsidized daycare is unbelivably long, and these
parents prefer their children raised by family anyway, so they
send their children to their home country to be raised by
grandparents or other relatives until the reaching school age.
At that time the child return to Canada to go to school, which
reduce the day care need.
Considering this, what the OP thinking to do is actually make
sense, and in fact better than the above situation. At least the
child still raised by the mother.
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